Creating a Relationship with Your Dog

 

Creating a Relationship with Your Dog

Homo sapiens (humans) and Canis lupus familiaris (domestic dogs) have held strong bonds for millennia. Over time we have artificially selected dogs that show specific qualities depending on our own selfish needs. These include herding, protection, and sociability.

In today's culture, we see dogs as companions, friends, and a part of our family. So what can we do to maximize our relationship with them?

Ask yourself… What are you giving your dog? What are you taking? Relationships are a give-and-take equation. A fair balance leads to a healthy relationship. What boundaries and rules are set for your dog? Do they allow your dog to “be a dog”? Which behaviors does your dog enjoy most? Are those needs being met? When you’re out in nature or in public, is your dog allowed to explore their environment?

As I always say “If you’re taking your dog for a walk, allow them to be a dog. If you want to go for a walk, leave the dog at home.” No dog should be expected to remain in a heel position without looking or sniffing anything while they are out. Remember the power of your dog’s nose, it is mentally stimulating and will help stimulate one of their greatest natural desires.

Are you constantly in a power struggle with your dog? If so, consider the cause. Cooperation from both sides will lead to a healthy relationship. Are you punishing your dog, either on purpose or accidentally? Try to teach the behavior you’d prefer to see rather than reacting poorly to undesirable behaviors. Guidance and patience will yield much quicker (and less stressful) results.

Animals are non-verbal in nature. Remember the importance of your body language. Start improving your awareness. Take time out for yourself if needed. Skip training if you’re not in a positive mindset. Remember empathy, think of the roles being reversed. How would you like to be treated in the same scenario? Choose the option most beneficial for everyone who is involved. Our dogs are living organisms, they possess feelings, they could be feeling ill, and they have unique motivations and desires, likes and dislikes. Let’s learn to work with our dogs, not against them.

"Your dog is not being a problem, your dog is having a problem." - Chad Mackin.

“Be a friend. Not an owner.”